This checklist will help you in planning the most important day of your life. Feel free to print it out and give copies to those helping to plan your wedding.
6-12 Months
* Choose the kind of wedding you will have, date and time.
* Discuss the budget, and who will pay for what.
* Consider hiring a wedding coordinator.
* Make arrangements with the officiator.
* Reserve the wedding and reception locations.
* Select your wedding dress, veil and accessories.
* Choose the bridesmaids, groomsmen, ushers, and honored roles.
* Have a formal black/white photo sitting for announcements.
* Send announcements of your engagement to your fiancé's and your local and hometown newspapers.
* Meet with the florist, photographer, caterer, videographer, and D.J. or entertainment to discuss budgets and options.
* Discuss the guest list with fiancé and families.
* Plan reception music.
* Contact a rental coordinator for equipment reservations.
* Discuss honeymoon and reservations. (Traditionally the groom makes all the honeymoon arrangements.)
* Arrange for time off work, if necessary.
* Buy a wedding planner and envelopes to store brochures and notes.
* Develop record-keeping system for invitations, gifts, and thank-you notes.
4-6 Months
* Plan new living arrangements and home furnishings.
* Select and register wedding gifts and patterns.
* Select color scheme.
* Order dress and accessories.
* Order bridesmaids' dresses, shoes and accessories.
* Contact men's formal wear specialist for men's attire.
* Have parents select attire.
* Order invitations, announcements, programs, napkins, matchbooks, and personal stationery.
* Arrange for physical examinations, dental appointments, etc.
2 Months
* Choose and order wedding bands and engraving.
* Order wedding and groom's cakes.
* Check state/county marriage license requirements.
* Plan ceremony, reception, menus, master of ceremonies, music, and timetables.
* Plan rehearsal dinner, and bridesmaids' luncheon.
* Complete guest list and address invitations.
* Make arrangements for lodging for out-of-town guests.
* Purchase gifts for attendants and groom.
* Plan reception seating, if necessary.
One Month
* Confirm all arrangements and contracts.
* Mail invitations so they will arrive three weeks before the wedding.
* Pick up wedding rings.
* Arrange for transportation to ceremony and from ceremony to reception.
* Attend final fittings.
* Have your hair and makeup done as you would like to have it on your wedding day. Schedule any tanning, manicures, etc.
* Purchase guest book and keepsake album.
* Contact your insurance agent about naming your fiancé as beneficiary on your life insurance, will, and auto policies, and buying homeowners' and floater insurances to protect wedding gifts.
* Open joint checking and savings accounts. Decide on a budget and savings program. Discuss them with your financial representatives.
* Write thank you notes as gifts are received.
2 Weeks
* Get marriage license.
* Give caterer final guest count. Don't forget the wedding party, photographer and DJ!
* Arrange to have your gown pressed and delivered.
* Arrange to change your name on driver's license, social security card, credit cards, bank accounts, insurances, etc.
* Make arrangements for moving into your new home.
1 Week
* Pack for honeymoon.
* Give bridesmaids' luncheon/party and give attendant gifts.
* Confirm directions, housing, and timetables with attendants.
* Brief head usher of any special seating arrangements.
* Arrange for rental returns.
* Prepare wedding day fees.
1 Day Before
* Pack the "Going-to-church" bag, and an "emergency" bag.
* Attend rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.
* Find a quiet moment to give your fiancé his wedding gift.
The Wedding Day
* Have a nice relaxed breakfast. You'll need it!
* Have hair and make-up done.
* Relax and let the planning take care of itself. Most of all, enjoy!